Special Talks Dec. 22, 2024
builder2024-12-27T15:29:20+08:00Special Talk INTRODUCTION BRO. ALVIN BARCELONA: Research says that not all are happy during Christmas. Perhaps because some feel pressured to give gifts. To some, they need to think of what food to put on the table for the Noche Buena. Indeed, it can be stressful. What is Christmas to you? It has been said that Christmas has three stages with Santa Claus. On the first stage, we are excited because we all believe in Santa Claus. In other countries, Christmas is a SAD season. SAD is an acronym for Seasonal Affective Disorder. This is true in countries that are cold-- because they have snow-- and gloomy because the nights are longer than the days. When you're alone in a cold and gloomy place, it can really be depressing. But in the Philippines, we don’t have snow. We set up bright Christmas lights-- that’s why in January we have higher electric billsJ. But how come during the Christmas season, many of us experience SAD or Seasonal Affective Disorder? Why SAD? Here are some observations: Christmas heightens your expectations. Especially in the Philippines-- because we have a long Christmas season. In September, we’re already excited for Jose Mari Chan to come out (in the media with his Christmas songs). Actually, he’s completely Christmas: season: Jose (Joseph), Mari (Mary), and Chan (sounds tiyan in Tagalog or tummy where Jesus is being conceived)J But they say the Christmas season heightens your expectations. Once Christmas season steps in, we expect to have more money and more food. If we don't, we feel miserable. We are used to family members not being around at all times. But when Christmas comes, we feel the need to be complete. If the family is incomplete, we feel sad. In addition, the hectic schedule of successive parties and heavy traffic just makes the season worse. And since we eat more and sleep less, our health also suffers. Merry, Happy It seems that we are more concerned with the less essential and we're less busy with what's truly essential. I love it when we play with words. Say: Christmas. If you remove Christ, what’s left is just mas. So, you become focused on other things, not on the birthday celebrator. The word Christmas begins with Christ. He is the birthday celebrator but more often than not, He is not being celebrated... In our school (Barcelona Academy) we teach children that the most important greeting during Christmas is "Happy Birthday, Jesus." Merry Christmas! In other countries like the United States, the Merry Christmas greeting has been prohibited especially in government offices because they deem that it's promoting a religion of Christianity that tends to discriminate other religions that are non-Christian. To be safe, they say, "Happy Holidays!” or “Season's Greetings!” It's ridiculous if you take away the reason for the celebration. That’s why, I want us to pronounce Merry Christmas as MerryChristmas. We cannot remove Christ in Christmas. That’s why I am happy with this meme: Meanwhile, an advertisement says: